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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: Is this consider a threat or am I just being paranoid.

I’ve been in and out of hospital for the past 2 weeks. My partner of 4 years has been helping me with the kids, taking them to school and doctors appointments but today I ignore my ex message, he asked. “ when I’m planning on doing my taxes” personally I don’t think that's any of his... View More

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answered on Apr 26, 2024

Based on the information provided, it is difficult to determine with certainty whether the message from your ex-partner constitutes a legally actionable threat under California law. However, the message does seem to contain some concerning elements that could be interpreted as threatening or... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: Lets say you have a client that sent lots of mean text but ex husband was sexting. No fault state but both bad texters?

the ex was emotional abusive and the only way to communicate was through texting. Now since infidelity is a non issue could I blow up the picture and say look we are both irresponsible at texting so the mean text are neutralized? I can make a big poster board digitized of course. Would that... View More

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answered on Apr 25, 2024

Under California law, which is a no-fault divorce state, issues like infidelity typically do not influence the court’s decisions regarding divorce settlements, including the division of assets and alimony. Therefore, bringing up your ex-husband's sexting might not have a direct impact on... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: Talking parents app

Throughout our divorce me and my ex agreed that all communication would go through the app unless it was an emergency he could call. What are the rules on replying? Sometimes I don’t even respond because he still tries to control my every move. Now if I’m not opening his messages with an hour... View More

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answered on Apr 25, 2024

Under California law, co-parenting apps like Talking Parents are often used to facilitate communication between divorced or separated parents. While these apps can help maintain a record of communications and reduce conflicts, there are no specific legal requirements regarding response times.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: To whom it may concern, I am in search of a pro bono attorney, to finish paperwork on a divorce.

Divorce case number: Dr 40718.

1) 1/2 of house done.

2) need to complete getting 1/2 of his retirement.

3) & 1/2 of the items in our home that was bought during the marriage.

4) 1/2 of his social security, being the first wife.

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answered on Apr 25, 2024

To find a pro bono attorney in California for your divorce case, you can contact local legal aid organizations or check with the California State Bar Association, which may have resources or referrals for pro bono legal services. These organizations often provide assistance to individuals who are... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Criminal Law, Divorce, Domestic Violence and Social Security for California on
Q: I filed soc security as single, now I find I'm still married. Husband gets disability, also filed single. I want divorce

I'm afraid of being arrested for fraud. I filed divorce in 1997 and thought I was single from then on.

The reason I keep taking husband in is because he has no family, no friends. Has mental problems and is alcoholic. He refuses to get help. Won't file section 8. Won't do anything for himself.

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answered on Apr 25, 2024

I understand that this is a complicated and stressful situation. It's important to address the potential legal issues and ensure that both you and your husband are complying with the law.

First, it's crucial to confirm whether your divorce was finalized in 1997. If the divorce was...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for Texas on
Q: When initiating a divorce, if the wife asks you to pack your bags and leave and you comply.canthisbe used againstulater?

Both names on the mortgage. One doesn’t want to lose any rights to house, kids, or assets.

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Apr 24, 2024

It can be used against you in a temporary order hearing to award the wife temporary exclusive use and possession of the house during the pendency of the divorce action. It will not affect a final disposition of the property in your divorce decree.

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for Florida on
Q: do i have to pay child support?

Wife and i are getting a nocontested divorce. we have kids. we are sharing custody 50/50. the kids stay with me every other day. I know that it florida child support is based off visitation with the other parent. If they live with me literally every other day, and every weekend does that mean i... View More

Pamela J. Fero
Pamela J. Fero
answered on Apr 22, 2024

When joint custody is involved and parenting time is equally divided, child support is determined primarily by the financial resources of the parents. Although it’s uncommon for no child support to be mandated, it can happen under certain conditions, such as if the custody is shared 50/50 and... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce and Family Law for Florida on
Q: Can a husband accuse his wife of kidnapping their daughter if she wants to leave their house with her as a separation?

The couple can't live together in the same house. Then the mother would like to go to another place with her daughter. But the husband says that what she's doing is called kidnapping. What can the mother do?

Pamela J. Fero
Pamela J. Fero
answered on Apr 22, 2024

If there are no existing divorce proceedings or custody agreements, the mother must secure consent from the other parent or obtain court approval before relocating. This process can become legally intricate, particularly if the other parent opposes the move. Consult a local family law attorney to... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: How feasible is it to modify the agreed upon "temporary" child support and alimony?

During the divorce proceedings, we reached a compromise on the TEMP child support and alimony amounts through an agreement, without using the Dissomaster or a judge's ruling. Our marriage lasted four years, and I have made payments for six months. To my knowledge, the temporary custody... View More

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answered on Apr 22, 2024

Under California law, modifying temporary child support and alimony orders can be challenging, but it is possible if there has been a significant change in circumstances. The court will consider various factors when determining whether to modify the existing orders.

To file a Request for...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: married for 44 years, filing a divorce from husband, retried & only receives social security can I receive spousal supp

Would I be able to receive spousal support?

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answered on Apr 22, 2024

In California, a spouse may be entitled to spousal support (also known as alimony) after a divorce, depending on various factors. Given the length of your marriage (44 years) and the fact that you are retired and receiving only social security, you have a strong case for receiving spousal support.... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Admiralty / Maritime and Family Law for Wisconsin on
Q: Where do I find an "experienced" bulldog divorce lawyer with Admiralty marine lawyer knowledge in a divorce with a yacht

Need immediate help possibly getting an injunction to keep it from being launched the last week in April in Wisconsin to prevent husband from sailing off with his new girlfriend with the asset although no divorce proceedings yet, but impending. Husband is a brilliant clinically diagnosed... View More

Tim Akpinar
Tim Akpinar
answered on Apr 21, 2024

You're seeking an attorney, and it could be difficult for attorneys here to respond with offers of their services. There is no solicitation here - the format is limited to quick Q & A. The closest thing to an attorney referral page on this site may be the tab above, "Find a... View More

2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for California on
Q: Where can I find a probono divorce lawyer
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answered on Apr 20, 2024

In California, finding a pro bono divorce lawyer might seem daunting, but there are resources available to assist you. You might start by contacting your local legal aid organization. These organizations provide free legal services to eligible individuals, and they often handle family law matters... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce for California on
Q: Where can I find a probono divorce lawyer
Robert Kane
Robert Kane
answered on Apr 21, 2024

Unfortunately, you are not alone. There ten of thousands of Californians who would benefit from free legal representation. Contrary to what you see on television, the vast majority of attorneys are not rich and cannot work for free.

Another option:

Limited-scope representation is...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: My husband claiming reimbursement for his separate property which is before marriage assets.Is he possible to do that ?

He’s claiming for reimbursement of his before marriage assets. Credit card, saving account, military thrift saving, two cars, house in GA etc.

currently we live in CA.

It’s total equity $143,213.

I was living in the house and using a car before marriage, we were living... View More

Robert Kane
Robert Kane
answered on Apr 20, 2024

Spouses can (and do) claim many things in divorce proceedings that lack any factual or legal basis. This may be one of those situations. You shouldn't concede this reimbursement or equalization, but I didn't think you would even if some attorney on a free online Q and A told you to do so.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: My husband claiming reimbursement for his separate property which is before marriage assets.Is he possible to do that ?

He’s claiming for reimbursement of his before marriage assets. Credit card, saving account, military thrift saving, two cars, house in GA etc.

currently we live in CA.

It’s total equity $143,213.

I was living in the house and using a car before marriage, we were living... View More

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answered on Apr 20, 2024

In California, which is a community property state, assets acquired before marriage are generally considered separate property and not subject to division upon divorce. However, if there have been any improvements to the property using marital funds, or if the property has increased in value due to... View More

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1 Answer | Asked in Child Support, Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: Ex was awarded 1/2 my pension. He’s behind in child support. Will this be garnished if still unpaid when I retire?

He took half of my teachers pension in our divorce. His wages are already garnished. He is currently 20k behind with still 5 more years of child support to pay. When it comes to retirement at 55 (I am currently 45) and he still owes child support- will my pension still go to him or will it be... View More

Richard Diamond
Richard Diamond
answered on Apr 20, 2024

Start with the presumption that his share of the pension will not be garnished. If there are arrears outstanding from his child support obligation, you need to file an application with the court and ask the court to enter an order imposing a garnishment on his share of your pension for repayment... View More

1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: DVRO Ex talked about my dead parents first when in discussion. So I talked about his dead wife. summitted as evidence?

I have a recording of my husband talking about my dead parents. I sent him a text that talks about his dead wife. Now in the DVRO rewsponse he is complaining about it? How would you present that?

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answered on Apr 19, 2024

I understand this is a sensitive and emotionally charged situation. In a legal context like a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO) case, it's important to focus on presenting factual evidence that is directly relevant to demonstrating abuse or threats of violence.

Bringing up...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: DVRO my husband told the all the Drs. he had a garage accident and now in the response he says I cut his eyelid?

I have no way to get his medical record or what he said to the dr. but he is saying the his response I hit him.

Can he just make that up?

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answered on Apr 19, 2024

In a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) case in California, both parties have the right to present their side of the story and provide evidence to support their claims. However, it is not legal for either party to make false statements or fabricate evidence.

If your husband is...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for California on
Q: SantaBarbara Co. I have docs to file in San Bernardino Co order for support spousal.

I “freeze up” w this process. I’m disabled cognitively. I need help/guidance. Divorce court has filled docs for me. But I don’t know where to start? I’ve rec’d conflicting info from each county/court. .

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answered on Apr 18, 2024

I understand that the process of filing court documents can be overwhelming, especially when dealing with a cognitive disability. Here are some steps to help guide you through the process:

1. Confirm the correct court: Make sure you are filing your documents with the correct court in San...
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1 Answer | Asked in Divorce and Family Law for New Jersey on
Q: I am looking to file for divorce in the state of New Jersey. I am not sure if my partner had already filed.

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Allison Kruk Ormond
Allison Kruk Ormond
answered on Apr 18, 2024

If your partner filed for divorce, typically they would have you “served”, meaning you would be given a copy of the divorce complaint and any ancillary documents. If your partner has an attorney, you can also contact their office to inquire about the status of any complaint/filing. If your... View More

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